What's your definition of nice

A message from one of my friends praising a hotel staff is the resultant of this blog. how do you often define people as nice? have you ever thought that why is it that certain people just seem nice to you even in first conversation and some people you totally want to refrain from. I remember writing earlier that it is about karmic connection but in this materialistic world we often fail to understand this karmic connection hence we end up defining people as nice on our silent criteria, for e.g. if someone meets your expectations, someone anticipates your needs, a person who has similar thought process, person who can understand you or a person who doesn't judge you for everything you do in life. Did you ever realise that it's just your perception about the person that aids you categorise the other person, a nice person may suddenly be not so nice if your perception about him changes, but is that a fair judgment? If at all you have to judge people judge them for the quality they have and the attitude that they live with and the deeds that they perform and not on there behaviour with you.

Manisha Dawar