faith vs lie
A small incident becomes an eye opener and we don’t even realize how it effects our life, any incident that occurs all of a sudden can put a positive/negative impact in our lives.
It was one such incident that kept me startled for few moments, my heart was pounding so hard that it could have possibly come out, should I believe my eyes? What I saw, was it actually true? If yes I still wanted to cross check, and so did I attempt but didn’t have a chance to cross verify, my eyes would have probably not been so sharp ever, but yes there was the truth right in front of me, and yes my heart and mind both were in conjunction it was a difficult moment standing out alone at that odd time and absorb all of it alone, and then I realized my blog of day earlier helped me control my reactions to acceptable level. I analyzed what was the reason of the lie, the person would have never even Imagined how my trust was shattered in a moment.
A call to clarify my illusion if any was absolutely necessary and after all the other person deserves a fair chance to justify the situation. What came next was a confession from the other side, and there I was numb in tears, It’s not that I didn’t understand the person and the situation that resulted in such an incident, I understood all of it, but the truth was that my faith was broken. I forgive you because if I don’t probably you would be afraid of speaking the truth again. I still want to tell you, a clear truth was better than manipulative lie that had the purest intentions may be.
I always say a misunderstanding if clarified may create new understandings, remember not to break faith, it takes ages to build but seconds to destroy. The only good you can do to any of the person you care for is to tell the truth always because any relationship is based on trust, the person may be annoyed for a while knowing the truth but would definitely understand you if she/he cares for you, but if you are caught breaking trust you would loosen the confidence to regain what you have lost, it effects any relation deeply. Choice is yours pain of few moments or scar for long.
Manisha Dawar