blame game 2

In continuation to my blog Blame Gane, A message that I received twice in third day now is the source of inspiration to my blog today. The lines are so “ zindagi bhar galib yahi bhool karta raha, dhool chehre pe thi, aur aina saaf karta raha”. For thos e who cant understand it in hindi it means what I am writing ahead.

Let me ask you a question which you don’t have to answer to me in person but answer to self.

Whenever something goes wrong with you, or you face any difficulty in life or things go against you what is the first thing that comes to your mind? Do you immediately start looking at situations, start pointing fingers to others, find excuses? How often have you just accepted the situation and looked back to self as to what was it that you did wrong? Or what was it that needs improvement in your behaviour? I said it once to someone and now expres it here, whenevr something goes wrong between two people, they are always both people involved, there might be  apossibility that one of them is less responsible for the mis-happening but there can never be a chance that only one of them is responsible. The way to live life is to look upto self and introspect first and then look outside.

Manisha Dawar