Comfort Zone

All of us live with an invisible wall that surrounds us and makes us feel confident, protected and independent. We often name it as comfort zone, believe it or not, all of us have a comfort zone in which we live. Only difference being the radius and circumference of this wall. While we all live with a silent expectation of others respecting our comfort zone or making up feel comfortable, we are rarely conscious about other persons comfort zone. How often do we take an initiative to do things that may make others comfortable, or how often do we refrain from doing things that make others uncomfortable. Such acts shouldn’t really be big tasks that involve lot of efforts but should mostly be small actions of acknowledgment. Expectations have a silent language and work on simple philosophy of give and take, you May chose to handle things single handedly but the relation built in with only one sided efforts collapse even before you notice.

Like we all carry our own comfort zone with us all the time, it’s equally important to respect and handle other persons area of comfort with sensitivity be it our known people or strangers.

Manisha Dawar,