Companions

Today’s blog is in continuation of yesterday’s blog wherein I spoke about the need of a companion, While I write so I recall a phrase from Vedas, our life is divided into four phases according to the Vedas, which include childhood which is further divided into phases where in you need your parents the most and then your friends and sibling’s followed by your second phase of developing career and finding a companion who is rightly called your life partner because in idle scenario’s he or she would accompany you and stand by you through all phases of life hence forth. In one of my blogs that I had written few months back I had given an example of perfect companionship that I had observed while travelling in Delhi Metro. Companions are not just two people who have similar tastes and likes as we often misunderstand but they are two people who accept the differences in each other and yet build up a strong understanding amongst each other, they know that they learn from each other’s differences. Companions are two people who stand by each other even when the world walks away. They are those two people who have such strong belief on each other that they can fight any storm together, while they celebrate each other’s success they learn from each other’s failure, they never play the blame game, they are two people for whom We is greater than I and every decision is taken considering us and not me. They do have their shares of tough time but they fight it together waiting for the smooth ride back they don’t leave each other mid-way but find new ways together, though you may feel that there ways might depart but the truth is they can never get apart. The faith that they have in we makes them stand alone as us.

Manisha Dawar