Connections; Kismat or Karmic?

We have always heard people talking about” first impression makes the difference”, it is the most important factor that decides how your interaction with the other person would progress. Yes it is true but according to me when we talk about connecting to people they are two other important factors that make a difference, they are basically two types of connections that we are blessed with, one is Kismat connection or you may say destiny and the other is karmic connection, while I write this, I already have web of jumbled thoughts covering my mind yet again, does destiny exist?, can it be changed ? are karma’s powerful enough to change them or are your karma’s also dependent on destiny and you perform your daily deeds in such a manner that takes you to your destiny.. let’s leave all these deep analysis aside for now. Let me explain this through a simple example, your relatives and family is your kismet connection and the friends that you make in life are your karmic connection, because you had done certain karma to get connected to them and win their time in your lives. While for most of us the second conversation would have been dependent on each other’s first impression, but have you ever been conscious enough to do at least one such deed that helps you connect with the person’s soul? That one deed that would make the other person think of you positively always. People may choose to walk by after first impression but your karma is strong enough to build a reason that allows you to walk along the other person through- out the life.

Learn the art to make each interaction with any person so positive that, the aura of your deeds keep surrounding the other person forever.

Manisha Dawar