Emotions are logical
All of us go through various feelings at various times and these are the outcome of various situations in life, we always believe that emotions are illogical and they pop up without any reason. I too was going through a strange feeling today and let me confess it wasn’t too positive, I realized it well in time and wanted to fight it. So I asked myself as to what is the reason for the generation of this feeling, how could I have felt negative about something that was turning positive. It was this realization of my emotion that gave me the strength to fight through the negative and change it in positive.
I understood that while emotions seem to be illogical and that is how we put them across, but what actually is illogical “that we don’t put efforts to know the reason of such emotions” we often don’t even acknowledge them ourselves and more often than that we are afraid of expressing them in open thinking that we would end up making fun of ourselves and here is where we start moving on the wrong track.
Good/bad/ugly however you feel it’s important for each one to speak out and express. The person who understands you would not get judgmental about you and would take every possible efforts to aid you understanding the reason of such outburst. A true relation is where you can express all that you feel, but remember to be cautious to not hurt others in this drive. Every human is equally sensitive about emotions, the only difference is some have the guts to express and some need to be assisted.
When you look back in life and the people you have in it, think of people in front of whom you don’t have to manipulate self and who don’t judge you every day. It’s important to have people who just believe in your existence and value it. If you have such people please value them and if you don’t? then widen your vision and check what is it that you are lacking that you don’t have even one such person. Also think that are you that understanding person in some one else’s life? expect only what you can deliver.
Manisha Dawar