Judge your relationship

How do you judge your relationship? What is it that you feel when you think about yourself and your companion together? Since happiness is just a state of mind you can’t possibly be smiling always. Then how would you judge if your relation is moving on the right track. While others can only judge through what you show in front of the world, remember each one of them would always be ready to give an expert advice without even knowing a fraction of the equation that you share with your partner. A test that you should often keep doing is analyzing your relation not as to rate it or compare it with others relations but to ensure that your companionship continues to make a positive difference to each other’s life. while you may have many people who would love to be a part of your happiness they would be few rare ones who would understand you equally and accept you at your low days. You may skip to share anything positive with your partner but when you refrain from sharing your distress and feel uncomfortable sharing your negatives it’s high time you need to talk to your partner and figure out what’s missing or what is it that unidentified source of stress that you have been ignoring for long. Your relationship is at best when you can confidently share all that makes your day and if you are comfortable discussing even your lowest points of the day including the most embarrassing moments of your life.

Happy Sharing, for I have heard sharing is a form of caring. Don’t leave things to lose to be assumed for it only adds to stress and miscommunication.

Manisha Dawar