Morals; rules and not regulations

Morals; a simple word with deep meaning. A word which is easy to pronounce but difficult to speak. A word that defines us and shapes our life. it’s a task we assign to self and entire life falls short to become a task master. While we decide to follow our believes in life we silently expect others to have the same mindset and follow those believes as well. When we get into this habit we start dividing things into two buckets; right or wrong. While doing so we often become too judgmental about things and end up doing deep analysis of situations around and  in this practice we forget our limitations, we forget that we can have only limited control over situations and what we need to learn next is to have control over our analysis and thought processes.

This often leads to over stressing ourselves and generating a lot of negative energy in our own systems with the “n” number of why’s. it’s good to get cautious from the way others live and tell ourselves what we don’t want to do, but it’s wrong to have a believe that we would be able to influence all others and teach them the right path. All we need to do is lead by example with open eyes to our restrictions and accepting our limitations, for all of us can have only limited control.

We may desire a change in society and outlook but can’t force it on adults who chose not to be moralistic human. Our first responsibility is towards ourselves for its only if yu do justice to yourself that you would have the capability to have positive change.

Manisha Dawar