Patience

What is it that we all lack today, how successful we are. What is it that keeps us a step back no matter how much ahead we want to go.

You may be going through many a things right now and also wondering what is my next line, you might also feel that would my words be applicable to you as well.

Yes its applicable to most of us belonging to same generation and is further decreasing in coming generation. The lesser controlled it is the higher consequences we face.

The longer we control the most peaceful we are. Yes you have come to the point now, my idea to extend this ahead and not writing all in next line was to make you realize of two things that we all lack "Patience and control on our temper."

We say we are well under control and take breathing exercises or don’t know what all from counting backwards to sitting alone, but why is it that we can’t succeed, it’s simple anger is related to patience and since we don’t have patience we get angry every now and then. two most common cause that lead to losing patience is to repeat what you have already said or being questioned.

Recall your childhood days, how many times would you end up asking the same question to your parents and they would answer you each time, how many times would you question every activity of your parents and they would gently explain it all to you. What would have happened if they wouldn’t have repeated their answers or for that matter didn’t answer all your questions? You wouldn’t have gained the basic knowledge that you have today.

So next time when someone questions you don’t take it negatively, but rather utilize it as an opportunity to learn and to teach. Repetition of questions might mean two things- one you lack adequate communication skills, second – other person needs more attention and your assistance to move a step ahead.

Manisha Dawar