Sufferings; consequence of your own deeds

As I guide one of my friends come out with certain situation I didn’t even realize that they were many learnings coming my way. Every time you mentor someone with pure intentions and without any partiality you would find yourself learning lessons that silently solve your own crisis and gives you fresh vision. We often complaint about different why’s in life but seldom think that these situations are actually the consequence of our own deeds of past. Don’t know how true it is and how can I actually prove it but there is a reason for why you meet any person in life, it is to neutralize the dues that you had against each other, be it emotional due or financial due. The difficult situations that we face today are the resultant of our own deeds of past, whenever we feel that someone is hurting us, give it a thought probably we had been a cause of suffering for that person in past. It’s our turn now to pay the dues and cut the cycle of suffering by accepting the truth and let go of our endearments, expectations and desires. If we react to any of such situation negatively we would only add on to our sufferings and that of others. Yes its difficult but not impossible to react positively to any negative situation in life.

Manisha Dawar