Relationships
the Game

At one point or the other we all have played this game and enjoyed it and tried to benefit from it, but if we look back and re analyze the situation, at least I feel it was not worth it, for it resulted in our own loss and block in learning’s. there was never a winner and we always lost, lost the game, peace of mind and value in our own eyes.

It was the Blame Game !! we still play it right? Be honest to self..

Look back and think was there any one ever responsible for any of your decisions in life? Was there a death and life situation and you were forced to take a decision that you didn’t agree too, this might seldom happen only when you care for someone, but then would you turn around and blame that person in future for your decision of past?

 

Apart from such decisions you have always had a choice to take decision and perform your activities, you always associated an excuse to your failure, but did you ever associate the same name equally generously when you moved a step ahead in life because of someone else.

First step to learn is to be accountable to your deeds and be responsible for the consequence. While I say this, I also urge you never to blame yourself for any consequence of your decisions until you don’t trust yourself that you took the best possible decision at that given point .

 

Manisha Dawar

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