Who are you

It is said to win hearts and leave an impact it is important to be people's person. They are two ways to be people's person, one is to be a good speaker and other is to be a good listener. While few of us May have both qualities some May have either one. By now spending so many years me life with people around you, you May have realised where do you lie. Just in case you are still to find out which category do you belong too, the easiest way is to look back and see what do people enjoy when you are accompanying them? Do people like to be with you because you come up with solutions and they like to listen to you? Or do they generally like to cut your conversation and change the topic feeling that it isn't leading anywhere. When people are with you are they comfortable opening their heart and share there troubles? Do you like listening to people? Or do you interrupt in between?

The right people's person is who has both traits and knows when to juggle. In todays time you might find it much easier to speak but before you open your mouth in public please ensure that you make sense out of your words or you May just end up losing respect rather then gaining points. If you don't know what to speak? The best way out is to be a listener. While it May sound easy but it is one of the toughest job on earth. To be a good listener you have to cut yourself from your own thought process and listen to The person without making any conclusions for at times all people want is, to be listened and not judged.

Do give it a thought of "who you are"


Manisha Dawar,