You dont deserve her

She is a common girl, you can't divide her in various monitory classes. She is a girl who lives next door, she is a girl who travels in bus, train, metro or airplane. She is the one who craves for strolling alone to enjoy nature. She is a girl who loves to be independent but you make her dependant at various stages of life, by being a protective brother, caring father, possessive boy friend or responsible husband.. Have you ever thought why? Because you never saw every girl as a common girl, every girl who equally deserves respect and care. You never made surroundings comfortable for a common girl, you never treated every girl as the one who deserves protection, while you kept a positive eye on the girl of your family you never extended this to a common girl. You love a girl with different traits and expect other traits when she is married or whom you want to marry. While you value your personal space she is expected to end it all and convert it into family responsibilities only.

You stop her from going out alone at nights for her safety but you never took an initiative to make her surroundings safer. You liked the concept of women coach but you never ensured she feels as comfortable in a common coach. You want her to grow high in career but you are the one who refrains from celebrating her success and envy her while you love to see other women at high positions.

You say it every day to every female in your life, that this city is not the right place for you.. But all you do is just talking and doing nothing.

Then why do you think you deserve her?

Manisha Dawar