an end always exists

I thought about writing on this topic sometime back as well but refrained, today i decided to write on it finally when one of my friend sent me a message saying that he is depressed I asked him for the reason, to which he replied that one of my friends young relative is in critical stage in hospital and has a 7 year old daughter. Now I had two choices to the way I may have replied, one was empathising and just listening, rather reading to what he says and the other one was the way that I adapted, to reply back as a strong person and make him understand that this is truth of life and the sooner we accept it the better we start living, he probabaly doesnt know how deep lines did he say when he said, "Koi jeeta to hain nahi, sab marr jatey hai, kal k peechey bhagtey rehtey hai or wo kal he achanak chinn jaata hain"

This is what all of us do, we dont value what we have today, we dont live this moment even when we no that the most certain part of life is that it would end one day suddenly someday. Other truth is the unceratianity that time brings in, you dont know which is your last moment. Honestly I too think of it, but dont get scared, I know they are at-least few people who would remember me for what I share everyday, I know I can carry with me what I have earned, its the treasure of your love and the memories of me being able to touch your hearts and make an effort to impact life positively someday for sure. Its the satisfaction of sharing all i ever wanted too, My friend you said that you have fear, you have it becuase you have not lived present enough, you have always been lost in thought process and probably have always invested time in past or future. 

Anything that exists on earth has to exhaust, death is certain, yes it hurts to see loved ones going forever, but it hurts the most because of the regret of not living the most with them, it hurts becuase a person suddenly goes and there you are left with no chance to express what you wanted too, for its too late to realise that time has flown away. You cant change it. What is disheartning is that many people die of sufferings and are often gone without expressing what they wanted too. Many go away with unsaid words and in loneliness you keep thinking of the feelings that he had for you which he carried away. Age is not a bar to decide how much a person lived, the way a person lives and impacts us is what decides his life and his age. You can live even after you die, but only when you have made space in hearts. Ending the blog here , I pray that may you live a long life where age gets fooled.

Amen !!

Manisha Dawar