cant be conditioned

Your love for someone doesn't condition him/her to behave in a manner as you desire or as per your own rights and wrongs, its unfair to start analysing your beloved on your expectation levels just because you love that person. Having said that nothing should stop you from expressing what you expect, just understand it can't be a criteria that qualifies him to be loved by you. It is ok to express what you feel but its wrong to judge a person on basis of your feelings for your reaction to same situation might differ as per your state of mind at the time of occurrence of that event.

Manisha Dawar