I had already written the blog for the day and some how it didnt get saved and got wiped off. Yes it was disheartning but I chose tonwrite it again and on the same subject that I had chosen. We must have often used a very heavy statement saying someone thatbi cant forgive you for what you have done. Neither of you two would have actually realised the real suffering that is caused by this statement. This causes pain to both parties involved and yould never realise it till the time you are at the other end and are asking for forgiveness but all your attempts go waste. Its only then that you realise that these statements cause a lot of suffering inside you and probably make your life numb. Its also dependent on the kind of attitude that you carry. You may be strong enough to let go of things but the guiltbthat heart carries stays forever. You can never live with a baggage that you keep carrying by not forgiving and not asking for forgiveness. It is important to close loops in life. Mistakes happen by everyone, never judge others just be humble, becuase when youbwould be at the other side youbwould realise the worth of this humbleness and forgiveness. Remeber you we're never perfect no one can ever be perfect.
Manisha
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I had already written the blog for the day and some how it didnt get saved and got wiped off. Yes it was disheartning but I chose tonwrite it again and on the same subject that I had chosen. We must have often used a very heavy statement saying someone thatbi cant forgive you for what you have done. Neither of you two would have actually realised the real suffering that is caused by this statement. This causes pain to both parties involved and yould never realise it till the time you are at the other end and are asking for forgiveness but all your attempts go waste. Its only then that you realise that these statements cause a lot of suffering inside you and probably make your life numb. Its also dependent on the kind of attitude that you carry. You may be strong enough to let go of things but the guiltbthat heart carries stays forever. You can never live with a baggage that you keep carrying by not forgiving and not asking for forgiveness. It is important to close loops in life. Mistakes happen by everyone, never judge others just be humble, becuase when youbwould be at the other side youbwould realise the worth of this humbleness and forgiveness. Remeber you we're never perfect no one can ever be perfect.
Manisha