do you get jealous

Girls are very famous for a common trait that they carry, it is jealousy. While they are blammed for this openly but the truth is that guys equally suffer from this negative feeling but there trait of not being too expressive shields them from being negatively famous for carrying this emotion. There would never be an end to girls v/s boys disuccions hence I would leave this discussion behind and come to the main context.
 Let me start with an honest confession i too feel jealous many a times, but only when I see my loved ones paying attention to others or praising others. I dont get this feeling if I see a stranger praising others, having been said that  let me tell you that I love to appreciate positivies in others and can often be seen praising starngers in person as well. Since any negative feeling harms you first and then targets other person I decided to find a way out to my problem and to find a solution I digged deep in thought process to know what is the possible reason of me feeling bad of someone elses appreciation when I love doing it myself. I found out that I didn't have problem with any one's appreciation hut what bothered me was in- secutity.  Now since I knew the real reason of my discomfort I started working on it, now I know to cool myself down and kill the negative feeling of jealousy by telling myself that its just an aprreciation and good should always be appreciated, also I keep telling myself no one is perfect and so cant I be hence I should take others appreciation as a mirror to improve myself as an individual.

Manisha Dawar