strength of differences

Multiple thoughts run through my mind as I sit to write todays blog, first inspiration for todays blog had come somewhere in morning but failure of penning down the point resulted in lossing the thought, however if I look back may be the thought was not strong enough to create inspiration and hence it skipped from my mind. What do you think keeps two persons together when they are involved in any relationship? You might have many answers running through your mind to answer this question and few may be as follows: trust, understanding, common likings, hobbies, eating habbits and many other things. Have you ever thought that you may share these common attributes with many people around you, however you still dont have a good bonding with each one of them, then what is that X factor that keeps two people together? We aint talking about love and faith here for they are the basics of any relationship to survive and these two factors come naturally for the person with whom you are connected. It is that facator that most of us may take as a constraint for healthy relationship but when managed well it becomes one of the strongest point. If you have still failed to recognise it here it comes, "it is the diffrences that two people share, be it in thought process or other factors". The strength of a relationship is defined by the way we learn to accept each others differences and handle them. If we have reached a stage where we happily accept each others differences and not judge each other on it, we have certainly built in a strong bonding and nothing else aparat from our own mind or disconnect of heart can break this relation. 

So would you like to judge yours? Above all would you like to make your bond with your special one stronger? 

All the best, for this blog was written with an intent to push you towards a strongeer relation and happily accept the gaps, for these gaps give you a chance to hold each others hand firmly.

Manisha Dawar