the day

To begin with Happy Marriage anniversary MOM and DAD, I asked mom how would you like to celebrate the day and she said, what is there to celebrate when I don’t have my partner only. A marriage anniversary is a celebration of togetherness is what I thought to her immediate reply but couldn’t have uttered a word in front of her, so what is it that I wanted to celebrate wasn’t the equation equally unequal for me, for even I had single parent and not both. So what made that date special and what does actually make any day special that we want to celebrate. Is it an attempt to try and live the same day again the same way round or is it that we value the essence of that day that we celebrate?

More often than not the essence of a human dies with absence of the body around you(this doesn’t only mean death but also means a person being far away from you physically. Celebration to me hence means celebrating the moment that gave you learning’s the moment that helped you grow a as a person and added value to your life. These celebrations can be done any day when you realize it again that what the togetherness on belongingness of an individual gave to you. Specific dates are just an excuse or to put it in better way they are just a reminder to how important that person is to you.

Celebrate unconditionally.

Manisha Dawar