losing is winning

In the learning process of life as a day moves ahead we come across make statements, and many of them also result into arguments, and when they result in arguments the starts the ego clash. And then suddenly out vision gets restricted and we stop thinking out of the box or fail to understand what other person tries to explain. It is then when our growth stops.

Like all of us react to the same situation in different manners the same way all of us have different thought processes, it’s important for us to understand that we don’t have to win an argument always rather it is important to convert an argument into a debate to learn a new prospective and understand things with open mind. This can only be done when we accept that we can’t always be right and second that even if we are right it is not necessary for us to prove the same to ever one, for its impossible to change any ones thought process, you can only suggest.

And to actually win through the situation and learn from it, it’s important to lose and never be afraid of losing, because only this would open your wings to fly high and leave the fear of failures behind.

Manisha Dawar